About 8 years ago in the tiny town of Chesapeake City an aspiring sailor took the time out of her day to drive a long way to meet me at the dock. A stranger, a gal named Suky, who I read about wanted to get to know me. Meeting Suky was the first validation I received as a solo sailor. All my friends, family and colleagues knew of my adventure but it was Suky who made me feel accepted into the world of solo sailing. Now that I am on respite from sailing it is reading about Suky’s adventures that keeps my dream of sailing alone offshore alive.
Another respected sailor is Sherry McCampbell. I remain in awe of her perseverance to stick with her goal to sail around the world. The days when Sherry and I walked the beaches of Indialantic, Florida are as vivid as if they are still happening. We jabbered with each sandy step. Sherry wanted and found a compatible mate, who she married. Me, I took the solo route. And, then, I fell into lust over a man who still makes my knees shake when he smiles at me.
While Sherry and her husband Dave are now about halfway around the world, after six years into their ten year circumnavigation, I am learning the ropes of being an unmarried housewife, a fraulein, living at the rural, arid gateway to the Rocky Mountains with a man I adore. Admittedly I am somewhat embarrassed that I have yet to finish my solo circumnavigation. Reflecting on the morning Suky showed up at the passage between the Delaware and Chesapeake Rivers which substantiated my need to have someone else belief that I have the ability to sail where, when and how I choose to navigate the world.
In my heart I know I will sail again. It is in my soul (and my budget)…
January 5, 2018 at 9:52 pm
Love takes us to the most unexpected places! I trust you are right where you need to be. I truly admire you, and grateful I made the trip up to Chesapeake City to meet not only an adventurous sailor but one extraordinary woman, I am delighted to call my friend. And btw, I am currently listing after tri’s. I think sailing one is somewhere in my future. Wishing you all happiness.
January 5, 2018 at 9:53 pm
Not listing after Tris but LUSTING.